This little black dress by Roberto Cavalli is super soft, super comfortable and makes me fantastic. I added glamour and more comfort with Wolford tights and decided only stilettos (these ones are by Hugo Boss and have a matching handbag) could do the outfit justice. Today I want to feel free, a bit daring — I want to please myself, to find out what I like. This is menopause. I’ve had many roles in my life but right now, while I let go of a few things, I am trying to enjoy the sense of freedom. Because what’s next just might depend on me. Time to be a big girl.